[GianFabien]

Based on your description, SF ticks a lot of boxes for you. So why not just go for it?

If or when the magic wears thin, then you'll be free to explore further.

As far as relationships go, as long as you do the things you really enjoy, then you'll meet like-minded people and it is through such people that you meet The One.

Yes, prices are high. As long as you see it as paying for what you get, it should be fine. If you start becoming resentful of it, then it also will be a sign to move on.

[more_corn]

I think the things that tick boxes about SF can be had for far less than the tax of living in SF.

[quickaskq]

Yeah this is kind of where I’m at. I can afford SF, it’s just whether or not it’s worth the price tag. If I can have a similar or slightly “worse” experience elsewhere for half the price then I’ll I’d like to save the money.

Life is short: do what you love and lead an exciting life

Life is long: invest for the long term and don’t blow your paycheck