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So what is the feminist theory why men don't share equally? So feminists believe women should give away some of their privilege of time with their children, for the benefit of men?

Or do they believe going off to work and "have a career" (never mind the aforementioned supermarket cashiers) is the better part, that men unfairly claim for themselves?

I have never seen feminists to call on mothers to give fathers more time with children, to tbh.

It is not about men being able to take care of children. Nobody sane doubts that.