Yes the transceivers recommended by Init7 (bidi-LR) do not support FEC and you'll be running in degraded mode (according to the controller datasheet), and I don't think this is something that can be achieved by coding of the transceivers.
The remote end is a Cisco C9500-48Y4C, on which one can turn off FEC.
On the Intel side, I found https://www.intel.com/content/dam/www/public/us/en/documents..., which mentions that while No-FEC might result in “poor link quality” (sure, that’s why people use FEC), it does not say anything about degraded mode or limits to 10G.