[kaioelfke]

Is the effort knowing, when to reach out yourself instead of a tool reminding you? Or is the effort about spending time with a person?

I use a running tracker, but I still have to run myself.

And how often do people reach out on their own? Often it’s seeing a post in a feed or some other trigger. Is that more authentic?

The willingness to add a reminder and spend time shows that you care about a person.

[binkHN]

I agree, and many others have seen it this way as well.

[void_mint]

If it's just a reminder, why not use any of the other reminder tools? (Because it's not)

[equality_1138]

It looks like you are trying to trick your person about when you sent your message. Because of an introverted personality concern? Seems like a weird use of a timer to me.