Conceptual Mathematics by Lawvere[1]
The book teaches category theory to, smart, highschool students.
It's a great start.
After that I went with:
Category Theory for Programmers by Bartosz Milewski [2]
Next I would go with anything by David Spivak.
Now I understand that: A monad is not scary, it's just a monoid in the category of endofuctors" ;)
[1] https://www.amazon.com/-/es/F-William-Lawvere/dp/052171916X
[2]https://www.blurb.com/b/9621951-category-theory-for-programm...
[0] Talking about the one "for scientists".
[0] Talking about the one "for scientists".