[bluedanieru]

These aren't insults.

[LaGrange]

What. "Abusive" is not an insult to you?

Or is your problem based on the fact that "abusive" relates to an actual character trait, and not the gender of your ex?

[true_religion]

Calling someone abusive is descriptive.

Calling someone a bitch is an insult.

[scott_s]

Insults can be descriptive. In fact, the most biting insults are accurate descriptions.

[LaGrange]

OK, right, sorry. English as second language and all that.

Thus, my new Guide to Insulting People as a Decent Human Being: Don't.

[bluedanieru]

I suppose it is an insult if untrue. Sort of. But you specifically ruled out that case. No, I do not think it is an insult.