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by BugsJustFindMe 1834 days ago
The police going to ask them in the first place was a wrong decision. A family minding their own business doing nothing wrong should not be burdened with someone showing up at their door saying "we think that you're the children of a murder rapist. If you don't help us that's definitely what we're going to conclude. If you do help us there's a chance that we'll conclude it anyway, but you never know. He's dead now so we have no requirement to overcome a legal defense. What say you?"

That's known as a devil's bargain.

> Maybe their reaction to learning

A more likely outcome is irreparable trauma.

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Are you saying you wouldn't like to know if your father were a rapist-murderer? I don't get it, really. And I'm pretty sure it can help those people learn better about themselves and their past. This is why they accepted.
Someone in my family actually DID go to prison for something aweful. I would be perfectly fine never knowing about it.
May I ask why you would rather not have known? I would assume truth is always better for safety concerns if not anything else.