[jjav]

> Self hosting these days is almost impossible because most email providers like gmail and yahoo mail will automatically move your emails to spam.

This is completely not true. Comes up every time there is a thread related to email. Every time many of us who host our own email servers will explain how it is not true. You can absolutely self-host your email server for your domains, configure it correctly and it will work fine.

gmail has a huge false positive spam identification problem, but it applies to all emails, even those from gmail to gmail.