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by DoomHotel 1869 days ago
Do you hate your feelings and try to run away from them?
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I would say as I've gotten older, I've gotten more pragmatic with which feelings I embrace. I've learned over time to not dwell too much on feelings of failure, inadequacy, doubt, etc. I can laugh off certain situations that would have been fairly devastating to me as a younger man.

I'm also less patient with others who dwell on such feelings (this is probably a bad thing, something I am working to address), and get annoyed with art that is overly sentimental. To be clear I didn't find this article to be overly sentimental, and I enjoyed reading it... but it was close.

You could say this is running away from my feelings, and that's fair. But I don't think I would prefer to have it any other way.

The question is whether one feels that this work wallows in feelings.