I bet OP could get a job at a FAANG maybe a level lower than they are expecting, and then just coast while making $200k+/yr with little chance of burn out.
I didn't say "just work at google" like anyone can - I'm saying based on what I've read of OPs bio, they can get a job there. How do I know? Because I've conducted thousands of interviews and sat on hiring committees at multiple of the FAANG companies.
FAANG jobs are, quite frankly, an insignificant fraction of the market. The overwhelming majority of developers are like the OP.