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by phkahler
1863 days ago
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>> It can be an issue if the person's family is unaware of it and they are actively engaging in extramartial relations. That would be situational. It sounds like the old rule was that just being gay was a show stopper. What you describe has little to do with sexuality and everything to do with extramarital activity which could offer leverage to straight people too. |
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Part of the problem is that it sounds like there were baked-in "hard-checks" about things that were automatically assumed to be shameful secrets that could be used for leverage.