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by jonathanfoster 1869 days ago
@ineptech knows what he's talking about. Follow this advice.

Here are some more ideas to consider. Source: 18+ years of experience as an engineer, manager, and director.

The theme is make your manager's life easy and he/she will do whatever they can to help you out.

Depending upon the size of your company, your manager may have more or less discretion with WFH. Whatever you do, don't put him/her into a corner with an all or nothing demand. Be clear with what you want, but be willing to negotiate how it happens.

If you've consistently delivered in the past, you have a tremendous amount of leverage. Believe me, the last thing a manager will want to do is lose one of his/her top engineers especially given this job market. Make sure they know you have options and you're willing to exercise them, but you really want to stay put.

Be patient, but hold a hard line. Most managers are inundated with bureaucracy which means almost nothing moves fast. Don't be surprised if your request gets pushed down the stack due to the latest fire that needs attention. Keep offering up options that make their life easier. I know, I know, this is about you not them, but trust me on this one. Make whatever solution you want easy for them. HR says no? Talk to HR, find the loop hole (private healthcare decision sounds perfect).

Alright, this one may be a bit more out there. Reader discretion advised. Just do it. Don't come back in the office. Don't make a lot of noise about it, make sure your productivity stays up, and have numbers to back it up. If your manager catches heat, do whatever is necessary to relieve him or her then go back to WFH.

3 comments

> Keep offering up options that make their life easier.

Can you give some examples of what offers like that could be?

I also like the Seinfeld-esque advice of just staying at home, although I really wouldn’t have the guts to go through on that.

How can you patiently explore your options or loopholes for HR, when there is an urgent deadline to return to the office?

Wouldn’t simply not showing up give them a “bureocratic obligation” to fire you for disobedience?

There's no such thing as bureaucratic obligation. A manager will not want to lose a good employee if they can avoid it.
Don't advise "Just Do It" I've done this before and it causes a lot of personal stress.