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Sarcasm or not, this is how life is.

Hang with people who are one trait and you tend to become that trait. Hang with people who are not, and you'll tend not to be either.

If you want to "chill", hang with those people. If you want to "work hard", hang with those people.

I'm not judging, I'm just saying. Choose your circle of friends wisely.