[legulere]

How about those explanations:

It didn't matter before, as compilers were not optimizing as much, code had a much closer 1:1 correspondence to assembly (if you are passing it by pointer and not register, you would want to make that clear in code).

It's much easier to implement in simple compilers. On the side of the callee you don't have to check if you manipulate your arguments, which is generally hard. Being able to manipulate your arguments is another shortcut for keeping the compiler simple. On the side of the caller you don't have to check if you hand out a mutable pointer.

Also finally and most importantly: memory access was much cheaper in terms of cpu cycles. Just look at cdecl: all parameters are passed on the stack instead of registers. Our current calling conventions stem from performance hacks like fastcall that were only optimizing for existing code (you pass big structs by pointer by convention).