[meristohm]

I have this urgency as well. I’ve used reddit most recently to revel in the emotions after finishing Blood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy. I also listened to some podcasts about the book. Usually I prefer to talk with people I know, and I accept that they may listen but haven’t just read the book, and so we move on to other topics. To help me process, I make notes as I read:

If it’s an ebook on Kobo I highlight & maybe add a note, then import the notes into Calibre. I also read on mobile, listen with TTS, and listen to audiobooks (mostly fiction there, since I take fewer notes when it’s a strong narrative, and I’ve enjoyed being read to since before I could read). Notes help take the edge of the urge to discuss, and they help me remember for future discussions.

Like others have said, it helps to read what friends and family are reading if you want to share in the experience.