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That is really unfortunate.

At least in germany you can go to the Einwohnermeldeamt (citizen Report office) and can request a blockage into your data. This should be enough for a stalker.

Are you allowed to decide what happens to your partner in case of an emergency? Or to decide for her if she is unable to decide anymore?

Also would you save taxes? Here our income is combined and divided 50/50. When I earn 100k and she 20k, we both pay taxes for 60k which comes to something like 100-200$ per month or 2-4% in savings.

If it is similar your stalker already hurts you on a daily basis.

[eru]

The tax system in the US is so weird, that under certain circumstances, people get 'punished' for marrying.

Look up 'marriage tax penalty', if you want to know more.

[toxik]

Tax difference is non-existent, and you can't block it from the public registry.