[teddyh]

> When we join a community that feels like a good fit, it's easy to assume that we all share the same values, but that's almost never the case. It's also tempting to think that because you're "with your tribe", that you should like everyone, and everyone should like you. But for a community of any size, that just won't be true, and hoping for it can only lead to disappointment.

Yes; see Five Geek Social Fallacies: https://plausiblydeniable.com/five-geek-social-fallacies/