[dqh]

It might be because men unfortunately, as a group, disproportionately misbehave in these situations. Sending unwelcome dick pics, sending aggressive messages to people who don’t show any interest in them etc. I’ve wondered myself if charging us to send messages might rein in the antisocial behaviour a bit.

[robertlagrant]

This isn't why, at all.

[dqh]

Care to elaborate on your certainty? Have you ever spoken with women about their experiences with online dating?

[robertlagrant]

If you read my comment you'll see I'm not saying the other thing isn't true, just that it isn't a factor on why dating sites are set up this way.

[dqh]

How can you be certain of this in all cases.