Raising a child and building a home and life for a family is expensive. I know a lot of dudes who are stressed because they partner decided to become stay at home moms but also, “please buy a house”.
Anecdotally, I’ve also heard a few women balk at the idea of the husband being the stay at home parent. And I know a few dads who would love to be home more but can’t because they became the default breadwinner.
That’s not a partnership.
I don’t know who to attribute this to but you know what they say: “The only correction is an over correction“.
> Raising a child and building a home and life for a family is expensive.
This is an important point. I don't think feminism is trying to limit options but in practical terms if you have a mix of two income and one income households competition between them will drive up basic costs such housing so that running a one income household is significantly more expensive than back when most households were one income.
You can try address this via tax, as many European countries do. But then two income households feel unfairly penalised.
Raising a child and building a home and life for a family is expensive. I know a lot of dudes who are stressed because they partner decided to become stay at home moms but also, “please buy a house”.
Anecdotally, I’ve also heard a few women balk at the idea of the husband being the stay at home parent. And I know a few dads who would love to be home more but can’t because they became the default breadwinner.
That’s not a partnership.
I don’t know who to attribute this to but you know what they say: “The only correction is an over correction“.