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by sneak
1891 days ago
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> We’re not meant to totally avoid touch and eye contact and movement. Meant by whom? Perhaps you aren't, but to make that claim for others is to fundamentally deny them their agency, as if they are mentally incompetent. I don't think these people are, for the most part, mentally incompetent. |
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The former suggests need for social contact is in our genes. There is a reason monks had monasteries for their life of withdrawal: they still had others around.
There are rare exceptions, the eremetic monks, but overall Hikkomori do not seem content. They are perhaps more comfortable than they felt out in the world, but I strongly suspect they are in a local maximum and could live much more satisfying lives.