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by MattGaiser 1903 days ago
The biggest problem is probably that if you had the patience to sit in a dark room and learn to code for hours on end, you are probably less social than necessary.
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This is an unfortunate stereotype, and something that honestly made me loathe other "nerds" in high school.

I often felt alone, as every other computer nerd felt like a caricature, rigid, deeply unfun and unnecessarily draconian in their lifestyle. It was a huge relief to go to university and see other smart people passionate in computers, who would still drink, smoke, be social and confident looking like fools.

I don’t know why you’re being downvoted. To get really good at programming takes a lot of alone time
That's true. But it has nothing to do with social skills.