[keithflower]

I feel for you my friend.

From my experience, having young kids is a very difficult time for relationships. Couple that with all the challenges around the pandemic and other current craziness, and things get even tougher.

From my experience also, as your child gets older that part of the stress tends to settle down and things feel better and relationships do generally improve.

Having said that, I'm a big fan of couples' counseling, which I think all couples can benefit from, regardless of the state of their relationship. IMHO, the ability to communicate is of primary importance, and it's not something that we're just born knowing how to do. One huge benefit from couples counseling is learning open communication with kindness.

Here's hoping things get better soon. Take care of yourselves!