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by the-dude
1914 days ago
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I appreciate your response. What I find puzzling about most responses is that it is not fully acknowledged that she is already behaving violently by threatening injury to others by using her vehicle as a weapon basically. If you hit an elderly full-front with a bicycle, I wouldn't be surprised if they died of the consequences. And you are correct I am not promoting bullying, that would be insane. But total non-violence has its negative consequences too. |
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I'd honestly like to hear how you'd have liked her to respond instead of calling the cops. Be silent?
And I'd also honestly like to know how you'd expect your teenage daughter to react if some bully comes and accuses her of something unrightfully, from her perspective.
The answer to both has to be the same since it's the same story, but from different perspectives.
Apparently you don't like "call a mediator" as an answer, presumambly because that answer is only because somebody grew up without a bully and thus has not learned how to handle this kind of thing on their own.
Obviously "fight back" can't be the answer here since you would not have liked that with your neighbor. But "keep silent" can't be the answer either that you are requesting.
So, which is it?