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If you don't see how https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26591334 is coming into the thread with guns blazing (I mean rhetorically, of course), I'm not sure what else to say, other than please try to imagine yourself into the position of whoever you're condemning and ask yourself if that's likely to help or make things worse. When you do this, you're rating the venting of your own frustration higher than anything or anyone else in the discussion. That's a contradiction. The opinion content of your posts is about defending the vulnerable, but your action in the thread is to hurt people who are present and be selfish towards them.

One of my teachers was a wise man who, sadly for those who knew him, died recently. In the last conversation I got to have with him, he said something I found incredible: "The connection is more important than the content." I've been repeating that to myself for a few months now: The connection is more important than the content. The connection is more important than the content. If nothing else that I'm saying makes sense, maybe try pondering that.