[staticman2]

But women generally don't want to be part of harems. If they want something besides sex, they pretty much need to stop sharing a small group of attractive guys and start settling down with the less attractive guys.

Perhaps tinder is not the place to find a guy for settling down.

[phobosanomaly]

They might not know that they're part of a harem if they're struck by the man's good looks and there's asymmetric information.