[myko]

I first heard about this game on This American Life - they had an actual ambassador from the US help a novice play. I found it super interesting and now have a copy of the game but haven't played it yet (hoping to post-COVID)

The episode, which I found fascinating, is this one: https://www.thisamericanlife.org/531/got-your-back

[xpe]

I heard some seasoned folks at a Diplomacy group describe that media coverage... IIRC, they considered it to miss much of the spirit of the game. I think ongoing people who enjoy it have a special ability to value the game dynamics without taking it personally.

[LanceH]

Step one: Don't think of your opponent as people.

[xpe]

This is a great statement. You are probably joking and serious at the same time.

At the same time, I think your quip demonstrates something I'm trying to get across. I've seen some people miss an opportunity to learn from games like Diplomacy. They bring in their personal expectations of how things should work. For example, they may want friends IRL to cut them a break in the game.

I find Diplomacy interesting because you have to light up all of your brain: assessment, strategy, tactics, and communication. Playing Diplomacy is cognitively demanding. One's ability to do well is a blend of hard power (what shows on the board) and soft power (how well you can persuade).

[morelisp]

The "novice" (not really) in the NPR article is the author of the Grantland article.

[sharker8]

Chapter One. Diplomacy, a game that will make enemies out of friends. Kind of like Twilight Struggle or Among Us, or any of the other games with similar elements: imperfect information, bluffing, perfidy.