[user-the-name]

Cutting your children off from their friends because you want them to copy your own hobbies is not, in any way, a healthy or sane thing to do.

[dang]

Would you please not cross into personal attack? It's not allowed here, and it's particularly destructive in highly emotional areas like parenting. Please make your substantive points without that and without name-calling.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html