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by burned_out 1961 days ago
> You may be generally unhappy with your career regardless of title or compensation. You’re allowed to feel that way! Not every “good job” is necessarily a good fit.

I think this may be the biggest factor, with other things mentioned adding to the issue

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If that’s the case I seriously encourage you to consider alternatives that will be more fulfilling, and steps you can take to minimize compromising your happiness in the meantime.

I have personally let a job I was dissatisfied with keep me well beyond a point that was healthy for me a few times. And it’s had a really negative impact, ranging from damaged relationships (both within and outside the workplace) to a serious mental health emergency (my coping mechanisms were basically damaging and deteriorating).

It takes a lot of courage to recognize something isn’t right. It takes a lot less courage to change it if you’re determined and have resources/access to resources.

If you haven’t already, reach out to people who know your value and talk about wanting to make a change. You might be surprised by the opportunity to try something new and get into a situation that makes you feel happier.

Thank you for taking the leap to ask here open ended, and to come back and share your thoughts. It’s helped me remember why I left my last job and what I want in my next one.