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by whalesalad 1987 days ago
On a dating app you are selling yourself. If you are not selling yourself accurately, that is not something you can blame on others. Put it in your profile: I have a thick accent.
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What else should I mention? There are countless things you get all when you meet someone in person and talk for 15 minutes that would take very long paragraphs to describe and "justify".
Mention the things that make you distinctly you. Even if you think they make you less attractive.

Your goal is to be yourself and attract people who like you as you are. Then you don’t have to be someone you aren’t.

I’d recommend the book Models by Mark Manson.