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I recommend thinking about this question in the context of public morality versus private morality.

I recommend this book by Robert Kane: "Through the Moral Maze: Searching for Absolute Values in a Pluralistic World"

GoodReads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1654373.Through_the_Mora...

A book review by Bruce Ballard: https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/abs/10.1086/490166