[astrange]

This is the same thing an abuser says to their spouse.

[meowkit]

Please provide an example because what you're saying doesn't make sense to me.

[astrange]

Making them leave (= leaving them) will be bad because it “will only make them angrier” and it won’t really solve anything.

[read_if_gay_]

Just because it’s also used by abusers doesn’t mean it’s always incorrect. Clearly the divide has been growing, and if you think deplatforming the right (which of course immediately went on to create their own platforms, so there’s now left wing and right wing echo chambers) isn’t at least partly to blame, then what is?