[nunodonato]

I stopped worrying about convincing. I joined other platforms to help others see I'm available (signal and telegram). more and more people are joining them too, so its good that you are there so others see you as well.

as for the rest, I let them handle the inconvenience of having to call/email me stuff... sometimes they dont, and thats fine, I just dont bother. if its important, people find a way.

[millibar]

Good point. The inconvenience to other is probably what i was worried most about but that is probably more their problem then mine