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> Some had very impressive careers, but when you realize that first opportunity was only because of a parental connection, suddenly it seems a bit hollow.

The first opportunity is always the toughest. Also grew up around wealthy people, vast majority of them fall into the category you describe.

I was lucky to meet someone early in my adulthood who would always stress "What part did YOU do?" "Show me YOUR code"

What I like about him is you can't get the bullshit you describe past him. He always breaks down what you say into the most simplest form to ascertain what truth exists within your words. He won't let you ride another person's coattail.