Yeah, it's probably relative, I've rarely used disks larger than the 8" floppies so would never call them diskettes, the 5 1/4" were commonly called that in my circles. In IBM circles of the time they'd have a different default scale.
Like I remember being surprised the first time I heard someone refer to AA batteries as the big kind.
And then they introduced little disks (a 8-inch floppy was small and light compared to existing disks) and called them diskettes.