[kiba]

90% of problems we have as human beings are emotional regulations. Maybe 5% is strategic decision making.

There's 'ugh' field, procrastination, fear, mental health problems, and so forth that impedes folks.

Growing, however, is all about academics, with a side dish PE. Nobody taught anybody how to deal with procrastination, how to deal with emotional problems, and so on. Or how to ask for help. Or how to deal with paying bills and taking responsibility.

Once we are in the real world, you either learn the rules of society or you don't. You sink and swim on your own 'merit', and that's not including the general lack of support society has for you.

Really, how do society expects people to function with no instruction manual? Or worse, that we are all making up shit as we went along with our lives?