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I’ve had a rollercoaster of a relationship with social media. In general, it’s been an unhealthy one where—if left unchecked—I find myself distracted, and ultimately seeking out attention and validation from folks I love, and many more I don’t even know. In short, I become much more of a “people pleaser”. Last year I left social media completely. I filled my new free time with some things I love: reading, convos with friends, side projects (I built two web apps!), and watching sci-fi movies. Yet, the draw of not having any social media and building my “social capital” began to creep into my conscience and bother me. I read a bit more about social media and its effects. I know it’s not all bad—these platforms have brought a lot of new, interesting opportunities and connections for many folks. But seeing some of the negative impacts on me and others, I began to sort of despise social media. Today, at my worst, I feel like social media is the new cigarette: we’re all using it, and the negative impact hasn’t been fully realized yet. At my best, I am able to say “I’m happy it works for some. But it doesn’t work for me.” I am frustrated by this confusing, complex relationship that I have with social media. I am both drawn to and pushed away from it. I’m curious what your relationship with social media is like today? Is it healthy? Unhealthy? How did your relationship develop into what it is today? |