[HeyHoJoe]

> There's no way in hell many of the people I've talked to on here about a bunch of different things would ever have those conversations with me

A bit of an inferiority complex here, you can’t possibly be that unpleasant in real life.

[MaxBarraclough]

I don't think their point was about being personally inadequate in any way, just that such conversations are unlikely to actually happen in person.