[toolz]

Communication is far less flakey when the default is a charitable interpretation.

As for your other points, I highly doubt such a simple comment intended to touch on the complexities of what it means to be alive - any interpretation otherwise seems to be reaching hard to find a complex technical fault compared to the alternative of interpreting with hospitality and arriving at the conclusion that it was a simple colloquialism intended to describe the situation.

Also, judging by your comment you seem to believe I'm the one who made the comment that was interpreted as unkind.