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by scrooched_moose 2057 days ago
We opted to slash&burn our guest list (~150>20) and do a very small ceremony in September for this reason. We didn't want the stress of dragging out, and as cases were spiking in August we didn't feel confident 2021 was even going to be an option.

Some friends of ours lost massive deposits on theirs in 2020, then rescheduled for 2021, and are starting to panic again.

It turned out to be a great excuse to uninvite a large swath of extended family we didn't really want to include anyway, and the small ceremony with only our closest friends & family was wonderful.