[deccanchargers]

Look at https://h2o.examp1e.net/

H2O web server seems to be faster than nginx , litespeed and supports http1/http2/http3 . It's config file is yaml file.

For HTTPS, i recommend https://acme.sh . It's very very easy and autorenews certificates using cron job.

[viraptor]

When you're tunneling VPS to a home connection and rpi, the performance of the rev-proxy is not going to be a concern. Anything including a trivial script implementation of the proxy will be able to saturate this setup.

[anderspitman]

Lots of mention of server push. Does anybody actually use it in production?