[OJFord]

The reason might be they've been looking for a different job for a while without luck, and the harm might be... pretty depressing having someone tell you how easy it is?

I sort of agree and am just playing devil's advocate, but I also think everything of 'there's better things out there you know' has probably already come up thread just before the person complained of their situation not being as good - they know better's out there at that point.

[auggierose]

I didn't say it is easy.