[textgel]

Oh so now you get to decide how they should self identify; how very generous of you.

At this stage you really need to stop and think about what you are doing and who you are hurting; they're just words to you but they're a lifetime of hurt to others.

Be . Better.

> I mean i am a (cis) gay male, so I don't think I have a heteronormative take on the world, but you do you.

You really want to call upon the equivalent of the "some of my best friends are black" excuse? I can't even...

[madeofpalk]

If you have some constructive feedback on how I could have worded what i said to be better, I’m definitely open for it. I’m always trying to be better.

Perhaps it would be been better (for a number of reasons) to say “not all managers are male” instead?