[simonw]

I gave up and stopped using it (well, I didn't bother reimplementing it on one of my various blog engine rewrites).

If I were to implement pingback or webmention today I'd use a moderation queue with the ability to allow-list trusted domains so they get to skip moderation in the future.

[Vinnl]

I've implemented WebMentions in a project that uses it as a push notification system for websites that integrate our widget (which is just a <script> tag they include on their page). That kinda works: if you integrate the widget, you know you can expect WebMentions from https://plaudit.pub, and thus add it to an explicit allowlist.

[kixiQu]

https://github.com/zerok/webmentiond has allow list and block lists :) I am very happy using it