[wolfgke]

> I don't mind it as a general guideline, because it stimulates people to ask themselves whether they're the asshole - a good inroad to introspection that in many is sorely lacking. Likewise, in the context of nerds, it probably applies more often than not.

Lacking social skills is something completely different than being an asshole.

[etripe]

I meant it more like "am I at fault/in the wrong here?". It doesn't literally have to be assholeish behaviour.