[Ancapistani]

On the other hand, I’ve found my doctor at least is very receptive to specific concerns and happy to offer advice on whether or not I should get additional tests. In a couple of cases he’s recommended against tests but I judged them to be worthwhile. Because I’m the one paying for it, he’s been fine with that.

I see a large part of a doctor’s job as being an expert consultant for an individual to make decisions about their own healthcare. Someone who is interested in and involved in their own risks is likely an extreme outlier to begin with.