my other life lesson here is: get a job, at least part time, until you can afford to reliably freelance. and when you take on a project, don't forget to get a contract signed with a pay schedule immediately before working, especially if you need the cash soon.
I understand. I wasn't sure about listing them here due to the somewhat desperate nature of the post (and with an eye on posterity). I'm happy to reveal all upon request though. If that's unacceptable to some then I'm sorry about that and I guess I'm not your man :)
I do appreciate your point though (not a wasted post far as I'm concerned, re comment below).
this is why i never comment at HN. the guy is in a bind, i offer some advice to help him get some more/better interest from people and this is the attitude i get in response. makes for a frustrating experience.