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by unnouinceput 2107 days ago
Never had one, never will. My wife has, my kids too, I don't. Clients get hold of me via e-mail or IM, family through landline. If I am unavailable immediately then tough luck, I love not be at anybody's finger tips if I go for a stroll in a park, for example.
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Eh. I own a phone and am also not available immediately as often as I want.
I leave my phone at home, or off when I want to, but the single biggest improvement of privacy and peace comes from "downtime" (iOS > settings > Screentime > Downtime). From 20:00 till 06:00 I will not receive any messages from apps.

On top of that "do not disturb" (iOS > settings > Do not disturb) hits at 20:00 and ends at 07:00 where no one can call me (except for those who are in my favourites).

So basically my phone is dead > 20:00 till 07:00.

Best of both worlds to me.

Its not like you are obligatory to answer.
Problem is if you have one then at least one person becomes important enough to "make you", the boss / a family member / a friend you feel you're in debt etc. I see that plenty around me. Pretty sure if I'd have one that person would become my wife for me. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife but I also love the freedom of not being at her disposal 24/7.