[throw4238]

I think the ultimate issue is a moral one I'm unsure how to approach.

If companies encroached on my paycheck as much as they do on my time it'd be theft, and time is actually more valuable.

Edit: IANAL disclaimer... I'm sure it's not technically theft here... but it's pressure and I think the metaphor still holds.

Companies setting deadlines and not including developers in discussions is asking them to either: - Stand up for themselves, even though they have less power/don't want to risk their job - Spend more of their precious time on the company

I find myself repeatedly being pushed into the second option, and when I bring any of this up no one wants to tackle it at a systems-level... because the system is working as intended. Taking from those who can't or won't defend themselves seems to be how to be successful in business.

What's a good way to push back without looking like a dick or being shunted?