[afro88]

There's no need for a list. To de-Apple, in the context of those 3 examples, is to not buy or use Apple hardware. That's it.

Apple is saintly by comparison.

[tgvaughan]

Apologies for running slightly off topic, but there's another way to look at this. The fact that Apple services like FaceTime and iMessage are restricted to Apple hardware means that those of us who haven't bought into this ecosystem encounter a fair amount of pressure to do so. So I think Apple's "saintly" behaviour is also self-serving.