| This is a so millenial take on self-control that I cannot help to comment about it. Old school resilience and persistance is what you will miss all the way into "I will do as I please to do things". Not good. Many, many things require years to be built. For example, if you want to study medicine, you're up for maybe 10-15 years of hard training, long hours of dedication, most certainly you won't see any "light at the end of the tunnel" before a decade into the challenge. But also most certainly you will have the impulse to just throw away all your efforts, not one, but dozens of times, but, if you remain commited to your own path and true to what you would really want to do in life, you will get to the end. How far in similar challenges would you think a person with a "lets go to whatever direction I want to go "right now" " approach?, will get? Most certainly not the astronaut, highly trained all kind of professionals (scientists, military specialists, even politicians), type. |